.∙ 21 things i want in a lover ∙.

Due to the recent situation which I find myself in I decided to follow Alanis steps and write something down about my ideal mate; not just a mate, but a lifetime partner.

1. Easygoing but not so much. Shyness is sexy too. If there’s something that can melt me down is a shy-naught-smile on the other of a man’s lips.

2. Intelligent. Too broad I know. Someone who can have a dissent conversation about any and everything and especially not turning it into himself all the fucking time. (Yes, that’s an INT). Wisdom also has to come with the territory.

3. Faithfull, trustful and confident. Alike but not the same. all equally important. And of course it must work both ways. I want to be trusted.

4. Sensitive and sensible: but not too much, I like it rough, too.

5. Ecologically, politically and socially aware: do I have to say why? Really?

6. He also has to have sympathy and altruism. Bring joy not just to me, but to those we love and respect and those who need.

7. Romantic as much as savage. Surprise me with both in the right proportion. Pro-activity is a must.

8. Not afraid to show who you are and who you are with. The same goes to your many formed, but flexible, opinions.

9. Talking about flexibility. You must be sexually versatile tending to bottom. And 100% gay. No bi allowed. I want to be able to satisfy 100% my partner.

10. I Love skinning and showering together. It’s also a must. The same it goes to sleeping. Cuddled up.

11. I wanna hear how much important I am to you and all the naught things you want to do.

12. Respect and freedom. The same goes to my friends.

13. to watch movies, prepare a romantic dinner, massage, long walk hand to hand.

14. Not afraid to kiss me goodbye in front of anyone. Nor uncomfortable for exchanging fries at the burger place.

15. Sex. I love it. No matter where, when or how. I’m a leo, JUST DO IT.

16. Gifts and remember special occasions. I simple message is enough.

17. Not short, and I don’t mean just heights.

18. I love explore new things. With respect, everything is possible.

19. Conversation and action. I love spending hours doing nothing and everything all together in a magic combo.

20. be a man.

21. Did I mention sex? Yes, double check that!


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# Alanis Morissette: 21 things I want in a lover

"These are 21 things that I want in a lover
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover"

Motto: “There are only two types of guys out there. Ones that can hang with me and one that are scared”