.∙ Get real, he’s just not that into you ∙.

Life is a jack box. While I was working today I was overhearing girls talking about end of relationship. Coincidently two of them have just been dumped by their boyfriends with of classical old saying: ‘it’s not you, it’s me!” “I’m not prepared for a serious relationship!” “I don’t want to hold you back”, “You are mister right, but not right now”... get real. How many times haven’t we heard those shit? How many times haven’t we said them?
Men are far easier to understand than we actually think they are. If they don’t want us and they are minimally man enough to admit it they will try to pass the message in a subtle, or not so much, way. How? Using one of those words.
It sucks really because it creates false expectations when they just want to break up with a straight cut. They don’t like discussing relationships. Once they put in their minds they don’t want us. They just switch off the love bottom (presuming they know the meaning of this word) and never get back.
Never? Of couse not. Men use two heads to think. It the small one is activated guess what is going to happen when he’s all alone and in need? Yeap. That’s we call ‘Remember’.
What I want to say is that: THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT YOU MORE THAN THEY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES. That’s true, anything different from that, from speech to behavior is just a way to get you into his bed.

Motto: If you want something you can get it. If he doesn’t want to, you can’t!
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